Transformational romance

Why I left academia: love letters to Liota

Dominance and submission games are tiresome and ugly (unless they're sexual play)

May 30 • David Chapman

The threat of the dakini & challenge of the vira

Vajra romance, gender dynamics, and developmental stage transitions

Feb 21 • David Chapman

Unavailable dakini catalyst

Seven tales of love and liberation through wrenching revisionings.

Feb 17 • David Chapman

Maya: a catastrophic extramarital encounter

The transformation it wrought, and how that echoed through decades

Feb 7 • David Chapman

Rational romance

What systematic relationship is, why you might want it, and how to get it

Jan 31 • David Chapman

Elena: Forced out of the interpersonal stage

A life-or-death decision that catalyzed profound personal transformation.

Nov 22, 2025 • David Chapman

#nojs-banner { position: fixed; bottom: 0; left: 0; padding: 16px 16px 16px 32px; width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; background: red; color: white; font-family: -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 13px; line-height: 13px; } #nojs-banner a { color: inherit; text-decoration: underline; } This site requires JavaScript to run correctly. Please turn on JavaScript or unblock scripts